Monday, November 23, 2009

Thanksgiving Meditation...


As it is almost Thanksgiving, I wanted to offer a short meditation on gratitude by the spiritual writer and artist, Julia Cameron. So often we think of gratitude as something that just happens, but what this passage reminds us is that cultivating an 'attitude of gratitude' can actually be a kind of intentional spiritual practice...


From Julia Cameron's "Blessings"...


Blessings Build upon Blessings

I choose to see and build upon the good of every moment. In counting my blessings, I consciously and concretely build a life of gratitude. A life of gratitude is a life built upon optimism, expectation, and attention to the good of every instant as it unfolds. This is not denial of adversity. Rather, the choice to consciously count -- and encounter -- my moment-to-moment good is a spiritual discipline. My trained optimism creates in me a stamina funded in the constant flow of minute but perceptible spiritual nutrients which fuel me, body and soul. I bless my conscious attention to good.


Good words to ponder as we celebrate Thanksgiving...

Chris +

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

God Protected Daniel...


The story of Daniel in the Lion's den often provokes fond memories among older folks about a particularly rambunctious Sunday School class decades ago. While I don't have this particular memory, many a faithful Christian has played either Daniel or the Lion in a Sunday School reenactment of this classic story, often complete with paper-plate lion's mask and carefully rehearsed roaring!

When we recall this story, we often focus on the Lion, and to a lesser extent on Daniel's willingness to be faithful even when other people persecute him for it. But what about God as a character in this story? After all, it is God's action that keeps this story from having a rather gruesome ending! I think we tend to minimize God's role in this story, because it touches a part of God's identity that makes many of us as adults ambivalent: God as Protector.

While God's role as our protector is an important part of our friendship with God, many adults, and myself at the top of the list, can find it challenging to describe exactly HOW God protects those who are faithful. After all, we know from experience that the kind of protection God offers us almost always isn't of the divine intervention type. When we take risks for God in our life, often there are human consequences that bring suffering and pain, and God does not come to our rescue. As adults we understand God's role as our "protector" in a more spiritual way. A relationship with God protects us in the sense that when we encounter suffering and hardship, God's presence keeps our hearts from being hardened. God protects us from responding to the world's rejection for our faith by becoming bitter, vengeful or self-pitying. God response to suffering is not usually or protect our bodies from harm, but is always to protect our hearts from despair.

Given that outlook on God's role as our protector, I often find feelings of insecurity beginning to creep into my mind as I teach little children that God will protect them - especially when the stories are about preventing physical harm or suffering. But I believe that, despite feeling a little inauthentic when I teach these stories, coming to grips with how I, as an adult, DO believe that God protects us, helps, even if it is a much more nuanced understanding than I can teach to children. Young children aren't able to make the abstract leap that we can make as adults, and so teaching them that part of God's identity is as a protector of those who are faithful is a useful early lesson. As they grow into their teenage years, we will have a responsibility to nuance this distinction in the ways that we understand God's protection as adults -- but that does mean there is harm in teaching children about God's protection in a way that makes sense to them at this age. This is developmentally appropriate faith formation that has integrity, as long as we know as adults how we understand God's role as our protector to be life-giving. Someday we hope our children will know that too -- and our lesson this week is the beginning of that journey.

Good luck on Sunday, and may God's protection be with you in your times of suffering and trial, guarding your heart against despair and rage.

Blessings,
Chris +

Monday, November 2, 2009

David and Goliath


Sooner or later in every Church School curriculum, it comes time to talk about King David. David was the second king of Israel (after Saul) and is probably the most charismatic political leader in the entire Bible. As with most powerful politicians, there's a lot of good with David, and a lot of not-so-good. Far from the cool and calculating Joseph or the faithful and steady Moses, David was full of passion and energy, an artist and a risk-taker, a devoted friend and wandering lover.

The 5th grade this week will explore David and his friendship with Jonathan (an interesting comparison to the "female friendship" of Naomi and Ruth in last week's lesson). However the K-4th grades will be focusing on a much simpler story from David's life BEFORE he became the king: David and Goliath.

The story of David and Goliath is so well known that it has become a fixture in modern English for any conflict in which the odds are terribly lopsided. This is the story of a young, small (even puny!), under-resourced, weak but spirited teenager able to conquer brute force with cunning and agility. While we often think of a strong, muscular, large-fisted David (thanks to Michaelangelo's famous sculpture), I think it is Donatello's 3-D representation that best captures how small and young David was. Donatello's work is an important visual reminder that the odds were indeed, heavily against the young David.

And this leads to two important questions: 1) Why was David willing to engage in such an unfair fight?; and 2) How did he possibly win?

Like Moses before he was called to leadership, David's previous occupation was as a shepherd. He tended the flock and protected them from predators and thieves. Having spent several years developing his instincts as a protector of vulnerable sheep, this act of bravery was in some way an extension of a character trait he had already been developing. If Goliath had not been challenged, he would have taken the Israelites as his slaves. David chose to take responsibility for the safety not just of himself, but of his people. The world of the Old Testament was all about protection, and it was David's willingness to protect those who were defenseless, to consider himself responsible for others, even at great risk, that led to his popularity and fame.

But of course, the weak confront the strong all the time -- and usually the strong win! Part of the reason why this story was put in the Bible is because the underdog pulled it out, against the odds. By making this piece of David's history part of the Biblical account of his coming into kingship, the writers of this book of the Bible were trying to show that God's blessing is always on the side of the weak against the strong. When we teach this story to young children, we often reinforce this theological point by saying that God guided the stone from David's slingshot. This does not mean that the weak will always overcome through force, but it does mean that God honors those who stand up to evil, even if they fail to stop it.

The childhood analogies of Goliath to a bully are reasonable ones, but when teaching this story on Sunday I wouldn't venture too far down that path. The story should not be read as justifying violence against bullies, but rather should remind us of the importance of standing up for others -- especially when it can be done without violence (as it usually can in a school setting!).

Encouraging kids to stand up to evil is an important spiritual lesson. There are always so many reasons not to do it: danger of being hurt, fear that you will not succeed, hope that someone else will do it, not wanting to look uncool to others. Unfortunately, the lesson of today's story is NOT that God will save us from suffering for the sake of protecting the weak or resisting evil. But nevertheless, the ability to stand up to evil is one of the fruits of a strong spiritual life, that grows from confidence that even when we do not succeed in such pursuits, God's blessing remains with us.

Chris +